
Ready to experience deeper connection? You're in the right place.
Fluid Intimacy™ offers a fresh approach, building authentic,
lasting partnerships that acutally feel good.

Understand why you keep having the same fight regardless of the issue.
Discover what keeps you from being grounded during high-stakes moments.
Decode your triggers and repair ruptures.
Shift from unconscious, fear-based reactivity, to conscious presence.
Begin to recognize the power of meeting your emotional experience directly.
Conflict becomes a portal, not a pitfall.


Fluid Intimacy™ works in the Field of Awareness. It's the living space where body, emotion, and thought meet. It’s the shared energetic field between partners where unconscious patterns surface and presence restores connection. We meet couples where they actually live — in the emotional, nervous system and relational patterns that keep repeating despite best intentions. Rather than fixing surface problems, we teach partners to slow down, feel what’s really happening, and rebuild connection from awareness, accountability, and alignment.

The Partnership Paradox is the tension between being a whole, sovereign individual and being fully engaged within the shared field of relationship. You'll learn how to stay connected while triggered - to recognize activation as part of the field rather than a personal flaw or attack.

Somatic Memory Patterns are the body’s stored impressions of past experiences that shape current reactions. They reveal how the nervous system remembers what the mind forgets, guiding us toward healing through felt awareness.

The unconscious quietly organizes our reality, replaying early imprints and unmet needs beneath awareness. As we learn to meet The Unbearable™ within this hidden terrain, what was once reactive becomes available to consciousness, opening the possibility of presence and choice.








Annelisa MacBean is a globally recognized leader in relationship transformation. With more than 35 years of therapeutic consulting experience, she has helped thousands around the world move from emotional chaos to deep connection.
Her approach blends trauma-informed psychology, attachment theory, and neuro-somatic practices into a practical and powerful method.
Transforming 1,000’s of individuals and couples across 12 countries.
Pioneer in integrating neuro-somatic therapies into relational healing.
Creator of the Fluid Intimacy™ Framework.
93% of participants report significant improvement within days


For more than 35 years, Paul thrived in the high-stakes world of corporate finance, leading global initiatives and managing complex organizational systems. Alongside his professional career, Paul has dedicated decades to personal growth, embodiment practices, and deep relational work.
As Annelisa’s life partner of 30 years, Paul brings the lived perspective of partnership, its challenges, breakthroughs, and enduring commitment. His presence in the Couples Lab offers both a grounded masculine balance and a relatable voice for those navigating the realities of modern relationships.
Together, Paul and Annelisa model the principles of Fluid Intimacy™ in real time, blending psychologist expertise with authentic partnership to guide couples and individuals toward sustainable connection.
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